Question by Julie B: I hate the fact that my husband still talks to his ex girlfriend…?
I am not sure what to do. We got married about a year ago. We’ve been together for 3 years. About once a month they exchange an email through facebook, myspace or just through email. It’s always something though. She’s always has a “reason” why she needs to talk to him. First it was because her dog had something wrong and had to go to the vet. Then it was “I have cancer” but it turned out she just had a mole removed from her face. She says things like “I think about you a lot and I always miss you so much. Or “I hope our baby lives a long time” talking about the dog that they had when they were together and now we have him. She also asked if it would be ok if they go and have dinner??? He asked me and I told him I would feel like shit if he went and did that and he agreed. He always shows me the emails and always tells me if she contacts him. I totally trust him. I know he would never do anything. It’s more of an annoyance than anything. I just wish that she would quit contacting him but then again maybe if he would quit responding she would quit sending him messages. I have told him many times that I don’t like him talking to her. That it really hurts my feelings and all he says is “I think you need to get over that relationship because I am over it”. I understand that but then again if you are so over it then why do you keep talking to her? I am just wanting some advice on what to do. Am i over reacting or do you think I have a right to be upset. Any advice would be great. Thanks

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Answer by robertswife
Honey, she is not the only one hanging on. It’s time for him to close that door on that part of his life. It doesn’t sound healthy at all.

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